Given the choice, most people say they would much rather break up with someone than get broken up with. But if you’ve recently initiated a breakup, you know how tough it can be.
Just because you summoned the courage to end your dead-end relationship doesn’t mean you’re not feeling a little heartache yourself (or experiencing some guilt for causing your ex heartache). But fear not, my brave friend. You are not alone. Following are some do’s and don’ts that should make moving on that much easier.
Don’t: Call, email, text or visit your ex in a moment of weakness
Even though you brought on the breakup, there may still be times when you miss your ex. A song might come on the radio that reminds you of them. Something funny will happen and you’ll want to share it. Or maybe you’re just having a bad day and want to reach out and reconnect.
STOP RIGHT THERE. Missing your ex is one thing. Contacting your ex is a no-no. In fact, reconnecting with your ex is the absolute worst thing you can do right now. So before you have that moment of weakness, remove your ex’s number from your cell phone, delete their email address, and take them off your social networking contacts. (Right now.)
Do: Ask friends for help
Because you initiated the breakup, your friends may not know that you’re hurting. But if you are, it’s important to ask for help, a.k.a.
recruit your Boo-Hoo Crew. You’ll want to choose a least three friends who know you well enough to know when you need comfort versus when you need a kick in the pants.
Your Boo-Hoo Crew should always know (and be able to remind you) why your ex wasn’t good for you then, and why they’re definitely not worth pining over now.
Don’t: Second-guess your decision
After a breakup, it’s all too easy to second-guess yourself and your choices. Did I do the right thing? Should I have given him/her another chance? Maybe there was more I could do to make it work… The truth is, you can make yourself crazy second-guessing your decision. But what’s done is done. You had your reasons, made your decision, and now it’s time to accept and move on.
Do: See your breakup for what it really is
You may not know it right now, but in ending your relationship with the wrong person, you’re paving the way to meet the right one. Chances are good that you won’t meet Mr. or Ms. Right overnight, but that doesn’t mean the breakup was a bad decision.
By walking away from that wrong relationship, you’re headed towards a life that’s more honest and authentic for you. What better way to eventually attract your perfect partner than by living and loving your own life?
Don’t: Badmouth your ex
In the aftermath of a breakup it’s all too easy to badmouth your ex, spilling their dirty little secrets to anyone who will listen. Don’t do it. Badmouthing your ex may feel good momentarily, but the fallout from those harmless snarky comments can be detrimental to your healing process, not to mention your dating future. Breakup karma is a bitch you don’t want coming after you, so zip the lip and move on with dignity.
Do: Become a breakup rock star
And speaking of moving on, did you know that you can not only survive your breakup but actually thrive? By applying the lessons you learned from your last relationship, and refining what you want out of life and eventually from your perfect partner, you have the chance to reclaim yourself and become the ultimate breakup rock star. So go ahead, rock on!
hahahah! ok cge magbiter-biteran tau mga peepz…
i hve a coment with Don’t: Second-guess your decision (its quite anti second chance) becuase i believe in second chance but not with third or fourh chance of course…
and the question is why would i doubt my decision if i realy dont love her or because i belive she’s not for me.. of course if theres a doubt there still chance that you still love him/her…
nakakarelate ako sa article na to because most of the time ako nakikipagbreak sa knila…yeah i do the dont’s and do in the article but not to the point nilalagyan ko kgad ng period…
actually there are many reasons bkit kelangan hindi n dpat icontinue ang relationship or vice versa..it really depends on you guys…if u realy love the person ask for a second chance? and kung kw yung taong nakipagbreak give him/her a second chance if she/he ask to have a second chance if u think its worthy to continue and if u still love the person…..
and always remember this….” dont let ur ego/pride conquer u because believe me it is the very reason why relationship always fails”
This is really and advice to be selfish and cold hearted. You are essentially suggesting thinking of the ex as a pile of garbage you should be glad to get rid of.
As someone who was recently and suddenly dumped from a relationship that had NO INDICATION of being “dead end” I want to ask, why SHOULDN’T you “feel a little heartache” for breaking someone’s heart?
At least YOU had a choice; you got to mull it over for a while. But your ex was just plunged into it with no warning and no control. If you don’t love someone anymore, of course you should leave them, but you shouldn’t be spared a little guilt, because you just devastated somebody who loved you and thought you had a future together.
well what can i say dumped…everyone is entitled to his own opinion…but i think you have to contextualize the advice, it is meant for someone who decides to end a relationship that is obviously not working so it has to end.
acceptance lang po yan tsaka be thankful kc kung d kau nagbreak bka hanggang ngaun nagmmhal k prin s isang taong d nman krpat dpat s pagmmhal mo
nga pla sir bkit puro break up ang article….
bitter k b sir?
after break up…
mas mganda kung mgstay ka lang sa bhay for 1 yr.hehehe.joke. i mean mga 1 day.try mo lang n icpn ung positive side ng break up nyo.pag break kc break na……. wag na umasa……
skn kc kapag break break..
ok lang yan sir
the best advice i can give is:
When you’re through with someone, you should not just get rid of that person but also your common friends. Seeing them or communicating with them will somehow remind you of the past and will affect the process of mending your broken heart.
*peace*
I guess I don’t mind breakups guess i haven’t found the one worth minding
well…madaling isipin..masarap basahin pro pra skin sobrang hirap gawin…
and one thing more…just wanna ask this part of the advice that says: “So before you have that moment of weakness, remove your ex’s number from your cell phone, delete their email address, and take them off your social networking contacts. (Right now.)” >>>eh panu kung memmorize mo po yung number nya, yung e-mail nya and even yung password nya?..wahaha..pasaway!!!!
yayks..since indi ako makarelate kapag about a break-up ng couple ang pinag-usapan,.iaaply ko nalang sa break-up ng friendship namen ng bestfriend ko..
“STOP RIGHT THERE. Missing your ex is one thing. Contacting your ex is a no-no. In fact, reconnecting with your ex is the absolute worst thing you can do right now. So before you have that moment of weakness, remove your ex’s number from your cell phone, delete their email address, and take them off your social networking contacts. (Right now.)”
yeah..cute advice..bakit mu aman hahayaang masaktan ang sarili mu ng paulit-ulit?..shungaers kana kung gusto mu paring ireminisce ang mga bagay2 na alam mung mahuhurt ka lang..better “STOP RIGHT THERE”..=)
nice one..
aaahhhhmm
delete their email address, their number?? pano un sir, memorize k0,, hahaha
the sec0nd suggestion is not a go0d advice rin PARA LANG NAMAN SA AKIN.. tma si kejie,. i also believe in second chances, (actually ngay0n ngay0n lng din ak0 nniwala pro tot0o yyann) cgur0 lht naman ksi nagkakamali di ba.. PWEDE MAGSORRY.. hahahaha
hayz..mxado qng cneryoso ung pgb2sa ng article n 2 ha.. well, tma nman lhat ng advise..jeje! ngwa q n dn un.. well, effective nman tlga..lalo n ung pg-dscoonect s ex..jeje
..woah!..uhm..hahaha..break up na naman,.
yeah,,,dapat kase,bgo mag comment,basahen muna ang context ng article..(naks)well,,,kung ako ang mag-eend ng relationship,its becoz i dont love the person anymore,or i have the feeling that he doesnt feel the same way as mine…so,break up is a reality…syempre,wlanghiya lang nman tlga ung bigla nlang mkkpag break ng wlang kdahi dahilan or dhil trip lang??of course,sbi nga sa article,if youre the one who initiate the break up,walk with dignity,maybe quietly,just to protect the privacy of ur ex….lalo na kung sya tlga ang nagmahal sau ng todo…u must protect his feelings and dont exposed him to others…haba noh?
Breakup is hard but you need that to continue..dont pretend you still love that person if you dont,it’s more painful to both party..but also beleave in..”love is sweeter in the second time”..but be sure to be true to yourself first
,,,jeje,,,aPplicabLe,,,
medYo naKa2reLate ako ah,,,
break-up n nmn..applicable to s partners n hindi compatible..haha..nu nga b meaning ng compatible?..bsta it’s up to their decisions..(anu dw?..)
bReaK up nGa nMn oh…
it can cauSe heartache
LLo n qnG D DpAT Ipgp2Loy p db…?
huHUhu…;’(
oo tama un,, lahat ng bagay na nakakapagpaalala sa ex ay dapat ng alisin .. xe panu nga namang makakapag move on pag ganun db?? pero minsan hindi din mapigilan ang sarili na alisin ang mga bagay na nakakapagpaalala,kung talagang mahal pa nya .. ung tipong binabalikbalikan ang mga alaala ..
pero kung talagang wala na kyo edi wala na talaga.. panindigan na lang na wala na nga talaga.. pero masakit talaga un.. hayyyzzz buhay nga naman talaga!!
anu ba yan nde n nMn aq mka relate.. mhrap tlga ang ala pang relationship na pnagdadaanan.. hahahah
mkpag open relationship kc keo pra alang break up.. masakit kc un eh..
ayyy tma nah ang break up .. dba nhica!!!!!!!,, c jhen din… bhe!!!!!!!!!!
cencia na ndi aq maka relate…….hehehe
break-up ano yong word na yon? hindi na naman ako makarelate…..
In times of soltitude
in the tones of divine
i start the prelude
through these lines
in the calmness of the night
i tend to hear your heart
in the calmness of the night
i tend to know your mind
reminiscing the laughter
the warm gesture
the muff of glee
the the stolen grace
in the remarkable place
the secret glance
the fiery emotion
the indelible love
the blissful soul
and the bite of confusion
which takes our passion
the sweetest melody
that will last to eternity…
nakalimutan ko na…
ano bang kasunod?
i love the “dont badmouth your ex” part. because it will do you no good.
on my opinion….
kapag binasura moh na ang isang tao,, kapag iniwan moh na,, wag kang aasang may babalikan ka pa…. if ever you cme back,,,your good as dead!!!
break up? wala kong masabi.. hindi kasi ako makarelate eh..
sana naman dumating ang time na ako ang makikipag-breakup. haha.
Ms maganda kung di mo na lang sya makita forever masasaktan ka lang lalo kung lagi mo sya nakikita.
Gwing busy ang sarili para di masyadong maalala. Makokonsensiya ka lang kung iisipin pa sya.
Libangin ang sarili sa mga bagay na dati ay di mo magawa kapag kasama siya.
i dont know, maybe i dont have the guts to do the break-up.. filing ko kasi masyadong masakit yun sa part nung partner mo… sumtyms id rather wait for him na siya na mismo yung makipag hiwalay, atleast it is easy for me to say yes, ok eh di break… no hard feelings at all.. kasi matagal ko ng gustong mangayari yun… hehehehe…
haay!!!
sana lng nga madaling gawin lhat un…wala lng..
huhuhu…hirap tlga d end na tlaga ung story..huhuhu…ako nga eh..iniwan ako?pero ok lang..d xa kwalan..hehehe..
cge magbiter-biteran tau mga peepz…
bwahaha.. tama.. pero tinetext pa rin yun eh.. next tym di ko na gagawin ok di ba? ahahaha
all i can say is what the hell!!!!!!!!
i have my choice and my own decision if i want to break-up with someone!!!!
that’s all!!!
all i can say is what the hell!!!!!!!!
and i have my own choice and decision if i want to break up with someone!!!!!!!!!!
and i dont want someone will dictate me what 2 do!!!!!!!!!
mas ok n ako ang mkipgbreak kesa ako ang ibreak..hurt!
at least my pride k n naitawid..
however, ok din kng nagmahal k ng sobra tpos binreak k.dun mla2man ng @sshole n un kng gaano kalaki ang nwla s knya…
sana mas maaga ko po nabasa yung advice.. anyways happy naman po ako with my decision ryt now.. although paranoid, but kailangang panindigan ang desisyon.. and learn from the past nga.. wahahahaha… it’s not me who cme back naman e.. ehehehhehehehe
well, mgbigay lang me ng comment abwt dun sa “Don’t: Badmouth your ex”..,there’s always a karma on everything we do,whether it is good or bad., hehehe…
also, don’t badmouth your friend turn to be your foe. it’s a big NO to tell the dark secret of your friend to others if you have a little misunderstanding, ‘coz a little misunderstanding can easily be fix. revealing someone’s secret is betrayal and it’s a sin that, for me, hard to forget and forgive… (hay, parang ang gulo ng comment ko.. bahala na poh kayong umintindi…. hehehe)
break up na nman!!???
hehe nd tlga aq mka-relate eh
for me just accept and forget!!! let go and move on. . . no further questions or wathever . . . pra tpos n hehe,
puro n lng break up!
well i try to experince it once!
tmam n yun! pwede iba nman!
hehehe
correct dont you ever, ever call your ex after the the breakup,,, ang tibey mo kung gagawi mo yun, aside from nakakhihiya, parang it will only show na hindi mo siya kayang bitawan…
I agree…. dont you ever show to him that affected ka sa break-up nyo.. Isipin mo na lang na di sya para sayo. If ayaw sau e d wag!! db… marami pa dyan sa tabi-tabi…..ganun lang un.
this article shud be read by most of the ladies..ladies shud be the one who’ll initiate the break-up, and end of the relationship.. though minsan, pag nkikipagbreak ang isang girl, it doesnt really mean na wla na xang nraramdamang something kea yan, they would try another step which was stated and advised here in this article..
breaking sumone you’ve been for a long tym is really a tough decision..but if the relationship is not healthy anymore well its tym to end it..i don’t agree in badmouthing because for once his been a part of your life so i think it’s not fair for the person to do that..
hear!!hear!!!
I think every one should follow on what is written here..its one way of making life easy and happy!
waaaaaa….. wla kong masabi… hehehe…
pag dating sa break up wlng madaling paraan, kahit ayaw natin, makakasakit talaga tayo…
it’s really hard to break-up with someone you truly love but if you found out that he can’t love you back, i think its the ryt time to end a relationship n mukhang wala namang patutunguhan.. its hard to fight for nothing especially kung ikaw lang ang nakikipaglaban.
sobrang saket pero kelangang tanggapin.. you know the right things to do to get over him/her.. =(
hooowooo… anu ba??? uu na break na kau sir,!!! mdyo bitter kc tayo eh,,hehehe,,joke lag sir ha.
anywayz..ang sarap basahin, at isipin na ganun lang xia kadaling gawin,, tama ung iba.. disconnect ur ex? panu nga naman kung kabisado mo at alam mo laht ng tungkol sa knya,, hirap pa din nyang iwasan,,hehehe..well, in some point para sakin once u decide to end up ur relationship,, tapos natalaga, wala ng balikan kc bkit mo magagawang saktan ang isang tao kung eventually babalikan mo din pala? unfair db? naghirap sya through cope that feeling tpos babalik ka din pla..hehehe
sapol!!! ha??
haay.. ganun talaga.. there’s no easy way to break somebody’s heart….
heheheheheh!
breaking up with some one doesnt really mean na hindi kyu pwedeng maging friends. kaya kung makikipag break k, kailangan tgnan muna natin yung mga words at manner ng pag sasalita natin pra walang hustle. ayun lang pow….
upon reading the blog, i think its not necessary to comment on this article.. haller?? as if i have a love life.. but seriously, i can consider this piece of advice, oh well! i’ll pretend that i have one.
“Don’t: Badmouth your ex”
BAM! Ouch!
natamaan ako. hahaha., 
i learned my lesson on this one.
hai…ang hirap magbigay ng komento tungkol sa break up …try ko tong tandaan baka magamit ko…dapat kapag nakipag break ka move on agad…hanap agad ng kapalit…hahaha…
WHATever the do’s and don’ts… still i believe in serendipity…
kung kayo tlga edi kayo…
Basta whatever the decisions you’re up to…
think twice so as to stand up for that…
hnde ung bnreak mo tpos babalik balikan mo…
pag saken ginawa un iisipin ko baliw ung taong yun.
hehehehe
wla nakong masabi,pero at least yung mga sinabi ni sir ay ginawa ko.
_hmmm..break-up??
wow la q masabi kht madalas aq hingian ng advises ng mga tao..basta all i know if you decided to end the relationship..it is a mutual decision..u dont have any ryt to have regrets..xe if from the start alam mong magsisisi ka at you both know it will still work then why end it up with a break-up??ryt?!kalokohan..hehe..
break up, break up, break up?! hay! nde madali, pero minsan kelangan tlga gwen.. it is easier kung prehas mttanggap ng 2 tao ung decision.. at npkhirap pag bitter bitteran ang isa.. nde n lang manahimik.. move on!
I think ,not much is to say. You initiated the break-up and doing some thing as futile as calling back your ex is a random thing.
Be responsible in your own right, seeing that you have broken up with the person is like you have placed a barrier-like thing with your ex.
ang hirap makipag-break ha lalo na pag matagal na kayo…it hurts so much!!! ouch!!!!!
pero dapat panindigan mo ung decision mo…dapt rin before oyu break someone’s heart desidido at sure ka na…and for the right reasons…
ayan naka2relate na2man aq…. huhu…. panindigan natin kung anu man ung naging desisyon natin… ^_^
haaayy… break-up nga nman!!!
for me, everything happens for a reason so kung hinihingi na ng pagkakataon na mghiwalay kau, then, be it. for the better naman un eh.
pano mo nga nman ipaglalaban ang taong ayaw na sau.. edi, go!! then, we will just both realize na tma ung nging desisyon q or nmin…(‘-’)
Break-ups…
do’s and dont’s sometimes help…
its a good observation for this things logicaly happen…
doing decisions when you are depressed affect a lot on what would be the out come…
Actually, hindi masama ang mag- heartbreak rather than heart broken. Because , I already experienced it. Breaking my heart before someones brokes with me is an idea of self preservation. pero ang masakit sa pagiging heartbroken or broken heart is the feeling of loneliness and sadness of the heart.because you can’t move on, because you know that he did not do it to hurt you or you can not find any wrong action or mistakes that you can blame for him…
somehow, some people choose to shattered their before someone do it. just because they don’t want to waste their life waiting to somebody that who doesn’t really care for them afterall. just like me…
the one that they love so much they will do everything just to care and make him happy…but the person n pinag-aalayan is percieving it as a usual thing. that come and goes. (OUCH!!!)
hai naku..e2 na naman!!
gaya ng sabi ko kanina.. pag-nagbreak, edi break!! don’t think ’bout that person!!
mag-saya ka xe nawala xa sa buhay mo coz’ may dadating na bago na perfect 4 u!!
nakakatuwa namn un..sana noon pa lang pinost na toh..pra naman mdli akong nakamuvon..heheh..
learn from every break ups and be a better person…in short move on…
sv ng open relationship ang kasagutan para walang break up
still…the best way to break a heart is shatter it to pieces….but why break it, when you can disect it and learn its inner beauty with a scalpel and a few lab instrument?
SELF-CONTROL..di naman maiaalis na bitter ka..o mami2ss mo ex mo..temptations to get connected again with him/her will always be there..kaya kailangan ng SELF-CONTROL..that is kung di nio n talaga kaya o ituloy ang relationship nio. Pero..kung you still feel some love for each other..at misunderstanding lang dahilan..then go on. Just make sure to settle the misunderstandings para di maulit.
break-up, nasa tao yan. kung ayaw mo na, edi wag. dont force yourself to someone kung alam mong wala ka ng mabibigay, at wala na din siyang mabbgay. life is short, kung ayaw mo na, edi move on and find new. joke lang. hehehe
kanya kanya lang tayo…
it’s really hard to be there for reason u shouldn’t be there…
hayzt…bkit nmn puro break up to sir????graveh…broken hearted k noh….hmmmm…aminin!!!!
ehehe!!!kng d amn ngwo2rk ang relationship nyo…wag ng patagalin p!!!!????
but then..pag ngdecide k n mkipagbrek….think 1o tymssss…hehehe!!!!gan2 lng yan eh…accept..4get then move on!!!!ganun lng!!!dont make things so complicated!!!pg ngdecide k n,,,un n un!!!
Dreaming with a broken heart
by: John Mayer
When you’re dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part
You roll outta bed and down on your knees
And for the moment you can hardly breathe
Wondering was she really here?
Is she standing in my room?
No she’s not, ’cause she’s gone, gone, gone, gone, gone….
When you’re dreaming with a broken heart
The giving up is the hardest part
She takes you in with your crying eyes
Then all at once you have to say goodbye
Wondering could you stay my love?
Will you wake up by my side?
No she can’t, ’cause she’s gone, gone, gone, gone, gone….
Oooooooooohhhhhhhhh
Now do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand
Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
Do i have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
Would you get them if i did?
No you won’t, ’cause you’re gone, gone, gone, gone, gone….
When you’re dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part
just wanted to share this song I cant comment on break ups actually because I never had one but I do have experienced a series of broken hearts but it never strike to me that i should stop falling in love until I find my better half… thats all…
you just have to accept everything..
that’s life..
geez!tinamaan ako dun ha…i also bad mouthed not just one of my ex but some of them..only two got the worst of my idea…but after all, i realized that i should be thankful to their being an asshole because they made me to be the person that i am now, who is being loved by that significant person in my life…
…i’d rather sleep all day…
haha!admit it people…we all suck when it comes
to handling a break up..either you are the one
breaking up…or you are the one being dumped…
although there are a lot of do’s and dont’s of break ups in the world…
you still find yourself pondering …
hey!Have I done the right thing?
Am I so mean?
And sorry seems to be the hardest word…right??
So,better think twice…
(pag wala na…wala na…)
(pag pagod na…pagod na…)
(tama na…)
(end of story…last chapter…period…and goodbye..)
breaking up esp with sum1 u truly luv is the hardest thing to do….hay npkasakit nun lalo na pag binigay mo lhat…
pero lyf must go on… with or without dat person…..
kya pag ngmhal dpat brain and heart pantay at pareho gumagana
Ask friend for help::::::e2 lng nman ang mdalas na gnagwa ng mga sawi sa pag-ibg eh…..
ur absolutely right jezza…its really hard to forget sum1 u truly love…lalo na kung naibigay mu na lahat!!!minsan yan ang dahilan kung bket tayo hnde maka move-on!
Tae naman hirap talaga di ako makarelate…Pero buti na lang merong ganito pede ko magamit ang nakasaad sa blog na ito sa future..heheh…at saka tama lang na once nakipagbreak-up ka panindigan mo…have some word of honor naman and pride..pero syempre bago ka makipagbreak-up be sure naman na its FINAL para no regrets….
-XVII-
happy hearts day!!!
dpat happy!!
bkit puro pang-break up???
bitterness…..
hirap mkipag-break..
mas gusto ko cla makipag-break sakin kesa ako ang makipag-break sa kanila..
dami naman dyan sa tabi eh..
bkit kaya ganito ang “motiff” or “theme” ng blog ni sir jan?break upsssssss… hehehehehe….
siguro ang hirap non… hahahaha….
ngayon alam na natin bakit si ely natali bigla
d mhirap ang breakup, bsta think of the things that ur past relationships brings into you…
and always the heart of forgiving and acceptace …
there is always an end…
hay break na naman?!!
peo sya parin da best sa buhay ko
shet! break…kinakanta ko yung theme song natin! break na tayo! bwahaha!1!!
yesterday was valentines day (and my birthday hehehehe!!!) and now here we are trying to learn the do’s and dont’s after break-up….
the rules are generally good…ahm, anyone might make used of them….
hay rules, rules, reminders, reminders… am tired of them but they keep the world stable..hahahahay!!!
for me wulang lugar ang sadness pgdting s break up xe nman db? ang dme dme p jan my god! de ako ang nwlan cla ang nwlan hehe
kapal ko!
bxta move on
basta if you broke someone’s heart or someone made your heart broken….parehong nakakahurt yan pero sigurado mag hiheal din yan in time… God has a lot of ways to help you do that ok…. so smile and rampa k lang…
.., mgpapaL0b0t0my nLng aq.
wLang nkhp0n.. , wLang bukas.
puR0 ngaun.
ngaon!
-®ai
Mahirap talaga kapag ang isang relationship dumating sa point ng break up. Hindi talaga maiiwasan na may masasaktan at iiyak.At kung ikaw naman ang iniwan hay..masakit nga yan…peo sabihan mo na lang sa sarili mo (kawalan nya un hehe) think of positive thoughts at ano pwede mo gawing ngaung single ka na. anjan naman ang mga Boo-Hoo crew mo cgurado lagi sila sa tabi mo para suportahan. Mahirap talaga ang break up..un un eh..hehe
panu kng nbura mu nga ung # ng ex mo s fon mu eh kbsdo mo rin nmn…
sense?
wla lan…
mgpganda nlng after the break up!
have more friends! hehehe…
tama..tama..
hay… as what i said breaking up is hard to do especially initiated it and your memory of her always visiting you in your nightmare…
I don’t know. I just know one thing, hurting someone is really hard but lying to someone who thought you loved her/him is more hurting than anything else. Also, being bitter is so bad that it hurts you and the person involve. Lying and denying won’t solve any of the problems. Learn to accept what the reality gives to you then face all your problems bravely.
Enjoy life that’s what matters most! Chill! =)
thanx for sharing the tips.. may maa’apply na ko if ever,,,
u read that?! DON’T BAD MOUTH YOUR EX!!!!!! @!#%$!!!
it will just make things worst, honestly. ur making it hard for both of you!!!!!! grrrrr!!!!
learn to respect to be respected in return @_@ hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon dapat sundin ang dinidikta ng puso (@_@)
use your head!!!!
choi, frend…. kaw b yan???
hehehehe
well… pra sken… mas ok pag xa mki2pagbreak…
atleast pag ganun nangyari, di k mko2ncnxa, wla kang pnghi2nyangan, at masa2bi mong di ikaw ang nang-iwan…
hehehe…un lang poh….
,ahhm after breakig up eh ma2log ka n lng at baka sumkit pa ang tiyan!!!
for me…….breaking is like up a nigthmare….
mostly kapag mahal na mahal mo s’ya………
pero kung dun ka masaya at yun ang best way para di ka masaktan so para ano pa para makipag relasyon k sa kanya…………………….
actually there are many reasons bkit kelangan hindi n dpat icontinue ang relationship or vice versa..it really depends on you guys…if u realy love the person ask for a second chance? and kung kw yung taong nakipagbreak give him/her a second chance if she/he ask to have a second chance if u think its worthy to continue and if u still love the person…..
yah that’s right..it’s our heart that should be given the consideration.but still love yourself! if you think that that person is not worth of your love better to end the relationship!
kahit mahirap kelangang kayanin eh!! hai hirap namang magcomment ng ganito!!haha